Thanksgiving, Gratitude and Relationships

This is the time of year that we are reminded to take stock of all we have and express outrgratitude and appreciation.  Here is a way you can turn this ritual into an opportunity to give your partner a romantic and loving gift for your partner gift. 

Between now and Thanksgiving write down a list of the things about your partner or the things your partner does that you really appreicate.  You can write down things that are more general, like, "I love how kind you are," or "I appreicate your sense of humor."  But, also make sure to include some specifics such as, "I loved how you casually leaned over and whispered 'I love you' in my ear the other night when we are at that part.  I felt so loved when you did that."  Include as many things as you can about your partner that touches and moves you.

Then on Thanksgiving sit down with your partner when you have some privacy and share this list  with him or her.  If you want to get even more romantic and make it a really special gift, get some lovely specialized paper (maybe something papyrus/parchment-like that you can present in a scroll), with lovely lettering, embelish it and then read it out loud to your partner making sure to take time to look in his or her eyes.  You can really make this a gift from the heart.  Think of how touching it would be to receive a gift like this.  Most of us love to feel appreciated and cherished by your partner and the best way to receive is to give.

Happy Thanksgiving and blessings,

Barbara

Barbara